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Vegetarianism and Paganism


A growing misconception seems to be taking hold both within and outside of the Pagan community.  This misconception is that in order to be a “real” Pagan, or a “true” Wiccan, then you must be a vegetarian/vegan.  This is grossly incorrect, and I have personally seen the effects of this misconception among Pagans.  I witnessed the trouble one young woman went through for being Pagan and a meat-eater.  She was verbally attacked over the Internet and so many harmful, hurtful, foul names were hurled at her that I ached for her pain.  And all because she had decided to share the fact that she is no longer a vegetarian because her body couldn’t maintain that lifestyle. The attacks on her were sickening, disappointing, and shocking, and made me ashamed to call myself a Pagan because those attackers also claimed to be Pagan and actively used Paganism as the argument in their attacks.

Vegetarianism and veganism and any other diet choice is a personal choice.  It is not a mandated part of Paganism that a human cannot eat meat.  In the traditions of Paganism I am aware of (which range from Asatru to Wicca to Heathenism [and some Native American traditions]), denial of meat is not a rule.  It is not a principle of these traditions that any member must not eat any animal.  Some may say that members may only eat animals killed in an honorable fashion and in a way that utilizes all the useful parts of the animal.  But no tradition I can think of bans meat as a food.

To be honest, I can think of no tradition that would do so.  To do so would put into place a rule that would not only potentially cause harm to a member, but also disrupt a natural balance.  What would happen if a member were to join, become a vegetarian, but then find that their body cannot sustain that way of life?  Is that member then kicked out?  That hardly seems very respectful or loving.  As for a natural balance being kicked out of place, well, our bodies are designed to eat meat.  It is natural to eat meat.  Eating meat does not make a person an unnatural creature.

I doubt that the gods (whichever ones you work with) would really care what you had for dinner last night.  I doubt they would truly care whether you ate prime rib or had a salad.  In my admittedly limited experience, the gods don’t give a damn about that sort of thing.  They do care that you are healthy and able to work with them in a healthy manner.  Out bodies are complex and affect all parts of life–if your body is unhealthy, how do you expect to have a healthy relationship with the gods?  For example, you can’t exactly participate in a ritual if you have the stomach flu, and if you’ve gone about nutrition in the wrong way and deprived yourself of nutrients by ignoring what your particular body requires, then you do yourself a disservice as well as the gods.

Vegetarianism and veganism are not bad things.  But those kinds of lifestyles are not for everyone.  Not everyone can physically maintain it, even when taking supplements and vitamins to compensate for the lack of meat.  I have a friend who was vegetarian for many years, but even this very problem caught up with her.  She wishes she was still a vegetarian, but her body simply could not keep itself healthy despite her best efforts to maintain the lifestyle properly.

Most paths of Paganism include the ideas of respecting yourself and respecting the natural world.  If you are respecting yourself and your body, and what your body needs, then (to be blunt) what the hell does it matter what you eat?  Even better is if you can eat meat in a way that respects the natural world.  The meat you consume once belonged to a living, breathing, moving creature, a creature that gave its life to feed yours.  We all owe a debt to the animals who give their lives for us, yet few of us pause to think about this.  My advice is to either 1) learn how to hunt and hunt your own meat so that you are assured that nothing goes to waste and the kill is honorable, or 2) buy organically from a meat co-op, the farmer’s market, or a similar setup.  Again, you are assured that nothing is wasted and the kill is an honorable one.

My personal view is that if humans weren’t meant to eat meat, we wouldn’t have canine teeth–teeth specifically meant for tearing.  That being said, I also think there are right ways and wrong ways to go about meat consumption.  The meat packing industry is cruel and inhumane.  But hunting and swift kills, and honoring the spirit of the animal who has given his life to sustain yours, is acceptable and humane.  A quick kill with honor, and not wasting the gift given to you, is far more humane than the meat industry today.

The horrors of the meat industry should be a motivator to bring about change.  It does not mean anyone necessarily has to become a vegetarian.  Being Pagan and eating meat is not a crime, nor is it wrong.  Eating meat does not make me less of a Pagan, and the same is true for those who choose not to consume meat.  It is a personal choice, and no one should be attacked for making a choice that speaks to their own soul.

Question of the Week: Moon Celebrations


Hi there!  This week’s question doesn’t really have an interesting introduction or story.  Just jumping right in!

Do you celebrate or honor the full moon?  What about other moon phases?  If you feel like sharing, how do you honor the moon, and do you do so monthly?

Post your responses in the comments section here!

Honoring Those Who Have Passed


I learned some sad news the other day.  One of my favorite fantasy authors, Sara Douglass, passed at the end of September from cancer.  Her books are fantastic, filled with rich detail, action, and the strands of mythology and history woven into new stories.  Her series, The Troy Game, even featured reincarnation as part of the basic premise of the plot in all four books.  It is a fascinating series.  I’m saddened that she is gone, though I’m glad she’s out of pain.  I never met her, though I would have liked to, but her work spoke to me and became a staple of my library.  Her spirit lives on in her work, and I can think of no better way to honor her or express my appreciation than by passing the word on to others about her books and to reread her work when the mood strikes me.

The reason I’m mentioning this on my Pagan blog is to ask the question: how do you honor the dead?  Especially when you’re honoring people you don’t know, have never met, but feel some sense of kinship with or appreciation for?

I like to light a white candle for the person and leave it lit as long as I can.  The flame, to me, speaks of the flame of the soul and the eternal spark of life.  Then I may close my eyes and say a thank you to the person’s soul, or send out a wish that their soul rest in peace.  I just want to focus on that other person, maybe remember their life and their work, and not focus on me for a time.  It reminds me that there are other people in the world and it’s not all about me.  Even if the act is not public (and most of the time, such acts are not), I think it’s important to honor and remember those who have come before us, whether they came before us in our bloodline, by creative work, or just before us in age.

Even if you don’t think the souls or spirits of the passed appreciate such acts, if can be good for the living to acknowledge the deceased.  It makes a good reminder that life is short and shouldn’t be taken for granted.  It makes a good reminder that each person’s life intersects with others and can have profound effects, for better or worse.

Weekly Deity: Rama


Rama is a popular figure in Hindu mythology.  He is the seventh avatar of Vishnu, king of Ayodhya, and husband of Sita.  Rama is the chief character in one of the great epics of India, the Ramayana.

Attributes

Rama is pictured as a middle-aged man, his skin blue and his eyes and hair black.  Rama’s blue skin is a sign of divinity.  Often he has a lot of jewelry on his person, and at times he is shown with his wife, Sita.  Sometimes he is also shown with a bow and arrow in hand.

Mythology

Rama was the oldest son of Kausalya and Dasaratha.  He had three younger brothers, Lakshmana, Bharata, and Shatrughna.  Rama’s father, King Dasaratha, had three wives but no children.  In order to obtain heirs, the king gave each of his three wives  some of the sacred, sacrificial nectar to eat in order of their seniority.  Kausalya was the senior wife and received it first, and so she bore Rama as the eldest child.

When the sons were older, a sage named Vishwamitra takes Rama and Lakshmana with him.  He requested their help in ridding his area of Rakshasas, a kind of demon.  The boys (mainly Rama) aid the sages by killing the Rakshasas.  Later, Sage Vishwamitra takes Rama and his brother to the Swayamvara ceremony for Sita.  (A Swayamvara is a marriage ceremony of sorts in which the husband is chosen by the marriageable girl and her family.)  The task to win Sita’s hand was to bend and string the bow of Shiva, an impossible feat for any mortal man.  However, Rama not only bends the bow in the process of stringing it, but he snaps it in two.  Rama’s fame for this act is spread far and wide and he marries Sita.

Upon his return to Ayodhya, the king announced that he would crown Rama as his successor.  Everyone is pleased about this except for the king’s younger wife, Kaikeyi, mother of Bharata.  Because of a poisoning by her maidservant, Kaikeyi feared for her son when Rama assumed the throne.  She asked her husband to instead send Rama into a forest exile for 14 years, and the king was forced to grant this request because he had granted Kaikeyi two boons when she saved his life, and she used those now.  Rama, recognizing the truth but also recognizing the importance of the solemn vow and a son’s duty, accepts the exile.  He is joined by Sita and his brother Lakshmana, their devotion to him compelling their actions.  Although King Dasaratha died of a broken heart the next day and his brothers and family pleaded for Rama to return, he instead held to the vow and remained in the forest.

While in exile, Sita is kidnapped by Ravana, a powerful Rakshasa.  Sita is captive for a year before Rama is able to find and defeat Ravana in a great battle.  When Sita returned to him, however, Rama couldn’t look at her, supposedly believing that her honor and virtue had been compromised during her captivity.  Sita begged that a great pyre be built so she could die, but instead of dying, she walked through the fire unharmed.  Rama rushed to her and explained that it was only a test to prove to everyone else that she had remained faithful–he had never truly doubted her purity.

After Rama and Sita claimed their rightful place as rulers of Ayodhya, Rama still faced rumors of her impurity.  Therefore to uphold the duty of a king, Rama banished Sita, even though she was pregnant, escorted by Lakshmana to Rishi Valmiki’s home.  Sita bore her twin sons, Kusha and Lava (aka Kush and Luv), while in banishment.  It comes about that Rama held a ceremony and during this ceremony a horse strayed into the forest.  When retrieving the horse, Rama found his sons.  Rishi Valmiki revealed their parentage to Rama.  When Sita saw that her sons were accepted by Rama, she took refuge with her mother the Earth (Bhumidevi), and Rama lived forevermore without his soul mate.

Light Side

On the Light side, Rama is the epitome of honor and duty.  He is the “perfect” man.  He held to his promises and vows at any and all cost.  He shows a great deal of love not only for his family but for his friends as well.  All in all, Rama is the height of nobility in Hindu culture.  He’s not he god of anything in the sense that the Greek and Roman gods had their spheres of influence, but Rama is, I suppose, the god of perfect manhood, as Sita is the goddess of perfect womanhood.

Dark Side

I’m not sure what the Dark side would be for Rama, but I’ll give it a shot.  He is a very good being, but there can be no good without the bad.  His insistence to hold to his word, while noble and good, also lost him the love of his life and sent him into exile in a forest for 14 years.  The desire to always hold to his vows and his duty above all else at the expense of personal happiness and love could itself be his Dark side.

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